December 2009
97 posts
The Adjusshi on romance.
[Watching a movie.]
Adjusshi: You LIKE me!!
Me: Excuse me?
Adjusshi: You touched my hair. It means you like me.
Me: Haha. No.
Adjusshi: Yes. If you touch or smell my hair it means you like me.
Me: I'm not the one who stuck his head in my lap. What else am I supposed to do?
Adjusshi: ...
Me: Who told you that anyway?
Adjusshi: Seinfeld. I love that man.
Adjusshi is stuck in traffic. So I blog as I wait.
I really need to set up my DVD player. I invited him over to watch a movie. Fairly sure he thinks this is a pretense, but I wasn’t kidding. Before he gets laid, I’m watching some Korean something or other. Rough Cut comes to mind.
I feel woozy. And sick. But hopefully I’ll feel better once he’s here. Damn, Beijing. Making me sick and freezing. I can still feel the cold in...
My day has been productive.
1. Landed at 11am. Got home at 12:30pm.
2. Texted all my boys to let them know I was back.
3. Called to cancel on the new guy.
4. Adjusshi offered to bring me soup because I’m not feeling well.
5. Slept from 1pm-7pm.
6. Got woken up by CompE who wanted to welcome me home and ask about my trip.
7. Was called by Everland because he gets tired of talking through text message. He’s...
If you are not reading her stuff, you should.
I must say, while the gettin’ down itself was decent, the excitement of actually being one of those couples in the DVD 방 made it even better.
We finished up with about twenty minutes of the movie left, so we cuddled for a bit and it was nice. He laced his fingers with mine and said, “See we our lace now — our hand? Fingers, ah, yes - fingers are laced. White lace, yellow lace. Best lace!” haha....
A dialogue on height.
I just wanted to set the record straight. A few of you, each time it comes up in my blog, defend the short guy. You defend the characteristics of his personality over his looks. And you put forth a valiant effort. And I see the merit in your wisdom. But, and this is where I start to fall of the short guy bandwagon, shouldn’t looks come into play at all?
For men, I think it is easy to say...
To: Loser, and all the rest of you.
Question/Comment:: When are you going to UPDATE?!
This little gem showed up in my inbox recently. I feel bad. I think I had alluded to leaving for China recently (and OH YES I do have a Cboy story to share^^) but had never really stated the dates. As it is, I’m back now and have plenty to update on. It was an interesting four days away. I think I can easily say that I probably will not go...
Last Sunday: The date I bailed on aka Shorty.
Shorty is short. I mean, I try not to judge short guys. He told me he was about 5’3”. I’m a little over 5’4”. I didn’t expect it to be too bad and I wore flats. HOWEVER, when I showed up at the subway station I saw a man that was pretty much shorter than most Kgirls. So short I actually thought, ‘please do NOT let this be my date.’ So short I walked...
Last Saturday: CompE
We finally went out. It was a great time. He is TALL. He’s 193cm which is just under 6’4”. Extremely tall for a Western guy, and pretty much unheard of for a Korean. It’s nice being with him because he feels so…secure. His body is very solid. At one point he stood in front of me to hide me from the other customers [we were joking about how he was so tall he stood out,...
To: Jessica.
Twilight and I have just…not been in contact? We texted a few times since I’ve been back, but neither of us has made plans to meet up. I guess I just figured that I had a lot of other guys that were cuter and that wanted to meet me so I’m not going to fight it. If he wants to call me when I’m back from China, that’s awesome. I will definitely go out with him. But, if...
A conversation on Xmas eve taking place on...
Me: Did you have a good sleep?
Adjusshi: Very nice. Yes, Sexy Dancer.
Me: Why did you call me last night?
Adjusshi: I was thinking about sex.
Me: But we didn’t HAVE sex last night.
Adjusshi: What??
Me: You just came over here to sleep. You said you were too drunk.
Adjusshi: No no.
Me: Yes. You called me and asked if you could sleep over here. You asked if you could leave in the...
Seconded!
itsdaejeondarling:
hookingupinhanguk:
datinginkorea:
Anyway, I called the 37year old, because we had tentative plans to meet up. But, it all worked out in the end, and I got a ride home. And sex. Can’t beat that. Don’t judge me. It was a good time. Not Barrista good, but good enough.
Dude, spill the old man’s tricks. It’s gotta be different than hooking up with a younger guy. I want to...
Sorry for lack of update.
Was so busy fixing my friend’s computer last night. It took me a few hours, but I finally did it WITHOUT reinstalling Vista and I’m glad I didn’t have to deal with that. Anyway, I called the 37year old, because we had tentative plans to meet up. He’s a good person to text when you’re bored, and he came to pick me up from HER house and drive me to/come back to my...
You're all going to collectively groan when you...
hotyellowfellows:
And then I dropped the bomb on him that I haven’t yet mentioned on this site: I’m coming back for six months, maybe for a year depending upon some things.
If this means what I think it means: I knew you’d do this. I had a gut feeling.^^
A lot of you have emailed me/sent me comments...
The truth is I just don’t feel comfortable posting information about him. If he were to see it he might try to contact me again. Beyond that, he could try to sue me for degradation of character. (He could say I was lying and I would have no way of proving I’m not.) Which I think is more common in Korea than other countries. But I might be wrong.
Anyway, here’s what I’ll...
GIANT thank you to all the computer...
I knew there was a reason I was so attracted to you.
My girlfriend has a trojan on her computer. From all the help these boys have given me over the years, I have the power to fix her computer. (Poor girl has been running IE and got the malware that way. Haha.) Thanks again, boys.
Sadly, I have to cancel my date with the potato chip boy (also known as KFF for long time followers) to go over to...
My life. Is ridiculous. WOW.
So, my phone rings today. It’s fucking EVERLAND.
Anyway, he said he tried to call me when I was in the US. But my phone was off. He called me tonight for about two seconds. I was so surprised I texted him back ‘mistake?’ to see if he’d dialed me by accident. Turns out he was doing what I do and just calling to see if my phone was on or off. He called me back and we talked...
A glance back.
All in all I have to say I have had an informative, interesting, at times hilariously funny and oddly entertaining weekend of dating. I think that seeing these other three normal guys restored whatever balance I’ve been missing since Friday night. Not 100% by any means, but enough to make me feel more at ease with myself and with guys again.
I know it seems like a short turn around but I...
2:02am. Just got in.
We spent the last two hours making out in his car. Felt like high school. Only my boyfriend in high school had a Camero that was made sometime before we were born and he was rebuilding it so it was an ugly blue color and made a weird popping sound so I hated it and we never spent much time in it. This car was awesome and he let me put the heat up to 25.0C even though he was dying when it was...
Speed Dating.
Thank you all of the lovely well wishes. I’m still mulling over what happened. Last night, because my Sat. night date was now canceled because I was supposed to have it with Judas I found myself with a free night. Shortly after I discovered this, I got two phone calls to meet guys. One was the guy that kept canceling on me before and the other was CompE. I chose CompE and had an amazing...
Reaction to Judas.
Was what I did stupid? Inviting a guy back to my place to have sex after having on talked to him online and on the phone? Yes. It was not my best idea and for that I have to take the blame of getting myself into a bad situation.
I think I was too trusting of Korean guys and how I assumed they acted that I figured that no guy would try to hurt me if I was putting up a fight. Judas has been living...
What happened to me.
I’m going to simply write this one as a recap of what happened. Then, in the next entry I will try to explain myself and why I think what happened did. So, if you want to skip this because the topic makes you uncomfortable or something, then feel free.
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I was supposed to have a date with a guy Friday night. He’s been really busy with work (they’re releasing a new cell...
Going to finish You're Beautiful and then I will...
I’m still trying to figure out what I want to say. And I know, I know, shouldn’t I have finished YB ages ago?* Just thanks everyone for the well-wishes. I’m less fine than I want to be, but I’m fine nonetheless. And I just blew about 300USD on making myself fine (didn’t work entirely, but thought that counts) so I’m going to go play with my toys now.^^
*I...
Retail Therapy.
Well, after my night my girlfriend and I thought it best to hit Itaewon and COEX today. I rarely shop when I am upset, but certain situations call for it (2nd time in 3years) and I felt compelled to follow the urge. My loot below:
27,000won headband that was hand-made and that I have had my eye on for a while. (It’s one of those peacock/feather ones, girls who live in Seoul, just so you...
Beyond. Beyond anything.
I just had the most ridiculous night. It was part extremely scary, part funny, and part terrible. There were no wonderful bits and the night was full of mental fuckery and power/control issues. I will post more later once I get a grip on what happened and what could have happened. Let’s just say I put myself in a bad situation. My wrist and ankle hurt from where I was physically overpowered...
My date tonight. Is busted.
It’s so fucking cold outside. And I am no pussy. I can hang with the best of them..but seriously. It’s cold. Yesterday my teeth were chattering as I waited for a taxi. Today my fingers went numb. And here this boy is making me wait for him. And I get it, he’s Korean and has to work late. But this is the third time this week. And TOMORROW’s date is a much better date for me...
My girlfriend made an interesting observation.
She’s been calling me the ‘new Sex and the City.’ Because of all these dates I have coming up.
This is especially sad to me because I always considered myself a Charlotte. Don’t laugh, I’m serious. But, I guess we’ll just have to see. But thank god I’m not a Miranda. (Hahhaa. That was mean. Sorry to all the Mirandas out there.)
Yesterday I graded an essay on a scary dream.
A boy got on his elevator in his building to go to the 25th floor (his home.) Instead it went to the 2500th floor and he had to walk down. When he woke up his brother told him a scary Pokemon had caused the dream.
Last night I dreamed about Ramen. And us meeting. I wonder if the Pokemon caused my dream too.
The nice thing about having so many guys.
I always love text messaging. The flirting sentences, the teasing, the short replies. It’s pretty much perfect. And, it keeps a smile on my face. So, with all these guys I have constant text messages coming in every hour or so from new people. Yesterday, when I was on the subway, I got three ‘good morning’ texts from different guys. It’s just nice. That’s all.
Phew.
hotyellowfellows:
So as it stands now, Bacon tonight, Bartender Friday, Eager Saturday, and Bacon Sunday. Awesome. Pretty good send-off, I’ve got to say.
Love this. My new schedule looks like this:
Friday night: Car date #1.
Saturday night: Kboy who makes me laugh and lived in America for 25years.
Sunday night: 160cm man. We’ll see.
Monday night: Car date #2 with a slightly pervy guy...
Monday's Date.
It’s with the guy I’m not exactly nice to. He wanted to know what my preference for the date was. I told him that as long as we didn’t eat seafood, I’d be ok. Then he thought I was psychic because he was JUST ABOUT TO ASK ME IF I WANTED TO DO THAT. Haha. Good thing I warned him early.
Finally, he has the brilliant idea for us to go eat 잔치국수. This is loosely translated at...
Dates.
Friday night.
Saturday night.
Sunday day/night.
Monday night.
This is going to be an awesome week. I might break my record provided it all works out.
Watch out Cboys....I'm coming to Beijing.
That’s right. This miss will be in Beijing right after Christmas. Ramen is going to Shanghai around that time. Let’s take bets on if we see each other at the airport.
Haha. Anyway, maybe I’ll get some Cboy fever. Wouldn’t that be fun and interesting? Given, I’m sharing a hostel room with a good girlfriend, I highly doubt I’ll be getting any action. But, you...
Random site maintenance.
I will soon be putting a bar on the side of all the blogs/websites that I frequent or that I think you should. Stay tuned for that awesomeness. This will happen as soon as I finish these Formspring emails.
To: 2girls-and-a guy.
Question/Comment:: We wanna see you!!!
In what capacity? This totally sounds like the beginning plot to a porno, so I’m unsure what this even means. Haha. You want a picture? I’ve already written about that. You want to meet me? And have me join in your sexual escapades? Haha. Let me know. Now I’M curious….
To: Pre
Question/Comment:: What about a random comment? I’ve been reading your blog for a while. I was really surprised and disappointed when Ramen broke it off with you suddenly. I somehow feel invested in seeing how things turn out. It’s like watching a movie, but there is no conclusion or insight into the other characters. As someone in a long-term relationship who will never be on the...
To: Faith
Question/Comment:: Hi grace, First of all,I love your blog,I read all 60+ pages! I got a couple of questions… 1-Most of the kguys you dated,I don’t know….well,first,they didn’t really speak good english and some are just retarded! My question:Don’t you think(or feel) that your selling yourself short? 2-Have you thought about dating korean americans?And what do you...
Kangta. (From H.O.T. And if you don’t know...
Date 2.
Another guy that I’ve been into has recently been texting me. He’s Korean Korean but has lived in the US for over 20 years and just came back to Korea 7 months ago. So, he’s totally westernized. I feel for him because he said he can’t really make Korean friends and he’s not a teacher so he doesn’t know a lot of westerners. He said that his Korean is not accented...
The date.
Has been postponed. The guy had to work late tonight. He was still wanting to meet me but it was going to be midnight or later and I have to work tomorrow. Plus anything that late sorta seems like a booty call, so we rescheduled for tomorrow.
He texted me a few minutes later to say that it was too cold for me to be walking around tomorrow to meet him so he’d pick me up. Haha. It’s...
I think I have a date tonight.
With a guy that I haven’t really talked about before. But, he texted me last night. Then promptly asked me out. So, I guess we’ll meet depending on what part of town he lives in. This is the crappy part. Dressing for work and for a date afterwards. Hmm…what to wear?
It's up. J and D Show.
Check out the podcast. Be sure to let me know what you think. I had a fun time doing it and am appreciative they took the time to bring me on. Now all you guys can hear what I sound like and imagine that when reading the blog. I feel like I sound like a child, but perhaps that’s appealing? Haha. Anyway: enjoy. (It’s Episode 11, for future reference. You can click ‘shows’...
Se7en. Christmas With You.
Just recorded with the J and D Show.
I’ll let you all know when the post goes up. Haha, thanks guys. Now I’m off to bed as it’s 5am and I have to be up at 10. *yawn*